This
weekend my mother, daughter, and I visited the jewelry store Alex and Ani. As
one could imagine, there were many cases filled with an assortment of jewelry
in which I had the pleasure of viewing from every angle. My four year old,
however, wasn’t so happy observing the collection from a very limited angle. (Down
low and through the glass. Lol!) She responded to this by stating rather
loudly, “Mommy pick me up. I can’t see!” My point? Often times when a child is
too small to see over a counter, one of two things happens: that child either
gets a boost from someone, or something.
As illustrated in The Glass Castle, a three-year-old Jeannette must improvise to get the water into the pot
to boil the hot dogs. (She uses a chair.)
In
The Distance Between Us, there’s no difference. Although many examples
are more internal than external, or less physical, the children get the boost
they need to see from a different angle from somewhere. A four year old Grande
improvises when her view of things are just below the glassless window. Her
seeing is represented through another sense. Let’s take a look! The narrator
says, “…we could hear everything that went on from that alley… Mago and Carlos
got up to look, and they giggled about what they saw, [but they never picked me up so that I could see for myself.]” Because
she is too small to see for herself, the narrator has to rely on something else
to see. Her hearing connects her to what’s going on outside those walls. Our
picture of what’s happening is being illustrated solely by sound. “We heard the
drunken men coming from the cantina down the road. They yelled obscenities…
Sometimes we could hear them urinating on the rock fence that surrounded Abuela
Evila’s property while singing borracho songs (15).” In this scene, her ears are her eyes. Readers can also
see that her perception of things remain very low on the ladder as well. She
says, “I hated that song those drunks liked to sing. Life isn’t worth
anything?” She doesn’t understand the meaning.
Another
representation of things unseen to the children manifest in the form of memory,
or reflection. The narrator says “At first I hadn’t really known where to find
Papi… Mago stopped outside of a house to listen to ‘Escuché las Golondrinas,’
which was playing on the radio… [and said] Papi loved that song.’ That is how I
learned I could find him in the voice of Vincente Fernández (32).” Reyna has
never met her father at this point of the story, but discovers a way to be near
him though sound. Here, we get another boost that helps the siblings see, be
near, feel the presences of, etc., their parents when they wouldn’t have
otherwise. This happens again with sensory details when Mago says “That’s how
Papi smelled…” and then we see Reyna coveting spicy smells like cinnamon and
Old Spice. Here, her angle of perception is broadened a bit more too, because
she can put a smell to a face. Also, Reyna can be near her mother through “the
smell of the apple scented shampoo,” or Avon perfume when the calls are less
frequent (33).
Since
the children, and many of the adults for that matter, have never been to “the
other side,” I realize angle is formed through the eyes of others too. Page 45.
“He said he wanted to know more about the place where our parents lived,” the
narrator says of her brother Carlos, and next thing we see is an entire
illustration of El Otro Lado. It’s a beautiful place, paved with concrete, no
dirt roads, no mosquitos sucking blood, no trash on the streets, and most of
all green dollar bills for trees. As a result of this, the kids then fantasize.
They create a world centered on the characteristics Tía María provides them. To
reiterate, their angle is established through the eyes of someone else. They
now have some sort of visual of where their parents are, and how they live, in
comparison to Mexico. At this point, they build their views from there. Grande represents what can't be seen by the children, through sensory details, and the building of worlds through other character's eyes.
you capture the physical and sensory moments of the first part of the book well. Literally taking the action from under the ironing board. I appreciate how you correlated this to your trip to the jewelry store and your daughter's needing a new angle of discovery
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I love the way you weave in the story of your daughter and the world that children are able to see. One of the parts of this book that was so authentic to me was how Reyna and her siblings used sensory memory to recall their parents who had left years ago- Mami was apple-scented shampoo and Papi was Old Spice. To children who don't understand much of the world, senses are everything- what things look, smell,sound and feel like. This was such a poignant moment to show how these children missed their parents. And your story was a good example of how children use their parents to see more of the adult world- you picked you daughter up so she could see around her and understand more. For Reyna and her siblings, the eyes of the adult world, who are their parents, are gone, and they must interpret what they can see on their own.
ReplyDeleteGreat Blog Brit. I really enjoyed how you broke down the angle of discovery in a different way by bringing in your real life experience with your daughter. Children teach us all the things, don't they?
ReplyDeleteThey sure do CF!
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